I had to take a hiatus from blogger land for some personal reasons, but I'm back now! This summer has been extremely eventful.  My "mister" and I parted ways in June due to distance and lack of time to put forth into our relationship.  We are still great friends and talk regularly (Too bad I cannot say the same for my estranged soon to be ex-husband).  Yea there is most definitely a story there but that's for another time and probably a whole other blog! 

I ventured out into single life at first with caution.  Then I took to it like a duck to water. My girlfriends and I called this the summer of singles since we all were recently single.  In hindsight I can see how this was a recipe for disaster.  Now as crazy as it sounds I used to complain about how my ex was not assertive enough, but he did keep me grounded.  I knew how I should act while being his wife in public with or without him.  I don't have that anymore.  

The name of this blog is "Control: Reluctantly Letting Go" through the events that happened in my life since April I can honestly say I have no control over anything except myself.  I read back through my old posts and laughed.  What a naive person I was.  So this blog is taking a new direction, much much more happy one. I am still on my search for the "perfect" Dom but this  go around I have the luxury of being picky.  My life is crazier now than I ever thought possible, and in the midst of all this chaos I'm smiling.  This is my journey, I hope you enjoy!

Keep a lookout for my next post... I promise it will be insightful and if not at least absolutely hilarious!